Wednesday, October 9, 2013

The Pink Hair Chronicles: the first few days


Sunday I stayed pretty close to home.  The neighbors noticed and asked if I had pink eyebrows too (she was across the street).  No, I don’t.  That’s too much!  Nolan and I had a couple errands to run, but this being Halloween season I didn’t get too many weird looks.  One little boy did say to his mom “Mom, why is that ladies’ hair pink?”  I didn’t stay to hear her explanation.

Monday, I went to pick up Nolan at school.  I was able to explain it to a big bunch of parents, which reduced the number of times I had to repeat it.  The young girls were elated.  One proclaimed “I want pink hair, it’s my dream hair” emphasis on dream J

Tuesday was a big day for me. I had a very important introductory meeting with a leader at a healthcare organization and I was very nervous about the hair.  As it turns out, she didn’t care.  When I asked her if she wanted an explanation she said ‘it’s not necessary’.  Perhaps I just don’t give people enough credit.  I’ve hidden my tattoos for years thinking that people would look at them and make judgments about me; maybe it was my perception of myself that has been skewed all these years. 

During pick-up at Nolan’s school a woman that barely ever talks to me normally told me that not only was she a breast cancer survivor but a thyroid cancer survivor.  It occurred to me how deep some of the stories are that we carry.  I’m learning a lot about people as a result of this and I think that’s pretty cool.


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